We're all hearing and reading about the "mortgage meltdown" and the "foreclosure crisis", that is occurring all over the country. Happily, here in the Upper Valley, the effects have been minimal. Certainly there have been more foreclosure actions than before, but comparatively speaking, not very many. However, if you or someone you know is in foreclosure or about to be, there are a few things to think about.
Once again, lest it be forgotten, I am not an attorney and do not want to pretend to be one, so any comments found here are strictly from my experience assisting people who are trying to sell their home with the lender breathing down their neck.
Paying the wrong bills: One of the biggest mistakes that folks in financial difficulty make is paying the wrong bills. When there isn't enough money to go around, the tendency is to pay the creditors that make the most noise. That is almost invariably the credit card collection people. They will call the most often and use the most threatening language and the most intimidating tactics. There's a reason for that -
THEIR DEBT IS UNSECURED! There is nothing they can do to collect except convince you to pay through harassment. They are smart enough to know that if you are in financial straits, there is no future in suing for the money. They also know that if it comes to bankruptcy, their interests are usually behind the secured debt and there will probably be nothing left for them. Soooo, they call and call and call to get what they can while the getting good. There is nothing for them to repossess, nothing to foreclose on. All they can do is stop letting you charge things.
Paying the right bills: The bills that should be paid first, even though they are usually the biggest are, first and foremost,
your home mortgage. The mortgage folks don't usually call very much lulling you into thinking they are not taking action.
WRONG!!! They don't bother to call so much because they are secured. They will take your house and sell it to get their money back. Your house is your biggest asset. It is where you live. Even if you are upside down, your home has the best prospect over time for appreciation. Your credit cards will not appreciate.
The next bill to pay is for your car. You can't get reliably to work without transportation. If you can't afford your present car, trade it in on something cheaper while your credit is still OK. If you just don't pay, they will call some, but ultimately they will come and take your car and you will not be able to buy another one. Protect your biggest asset and the way you get to your job. The rest can wait and they will.
Negotiate from strength: If you see yourself going under water, be proactive. Call your mortgage company. You should at least be able to negotiate paying only the interest on your loan. Some lenders will also work with you to defer payments and add them to the end of your loan. Whatever agreement you work out,
get it in writing. Same thing with the car. If you have to trade down, do it before your credit is shot. Don't wait for a miracle until you are trapped with no credit and no cash. Same thing with the electric and the fuel bill. Call up and get on a payment plan and pay it. Cancel the cable and the cell phone and the gym membership. Skip the manicures, the hair appointments, the eating out.
If you have retirement funds, 401k's etc., don't pay bills with the money. In most instances, the funds are protected if it should come to bankruptcy. Why be both bankrupt
and have no retirement fund? Check with your attorney for the details and make it work.
The biggest problem for hard working people who have never been in financial difficulty is that they have no experience with it and do the wrong things. Get some counseling from a trusted financial adviser or attorney. But mostly, do
something! If you just throw up your hands and hide because you're embarrassed or afraid, nature will simply take its course and you will be the worse off for it. Work through it and learn from it. Good luck!